Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Stuff I've been wanting to say and write but really can't ..well sort of...
When you're married it seems other people perceive your relationship based on their on preconceived notions, experiences or current situations.
Carl and I have a great relationship mainly because he's my friend. I've blogged and said that before. We have our own jokes etc and on and on. Yeah I know its sappy. Carl as an artist or musician has never changed me or made me envy him. Never. He'll vouch for the many shows or few shows that I've attended where I'll usually post up way in the back or out the way.
And that's mainly because he becomes someone else.
He becomes KOKAYI. I know all about KOKAYI. And he's cool, humble and has star quality. He's a genius in fact. Don't let him know I said that. But I know, love and adore Carl. When he's in KOKAYI mode and whether I'm there on biz or not; I let him do KOKAYI. I'm no groupie. In fact when friends and acquaintances come to me on some KOKAYI ish about how great he is, I'm immediatly the jester. Usually I'll answer with a quick like Yeah he's alright. Yeah cool. Ummmmmm. This is not an act. I repeat this is not an act. That's just me.
I want the best out of Carl and KOKAYI. I push him as a friend, wife and artist. And I don't know what spouse wouldn't.
ahhh
The kids are on Spring break and I'm worn out after watching them run around the MALL( DC's mall you know the monument etc). And now they're busted and smacked out in bed. Ahh fresh air. Dahvi has to memorize an original piece written by moi for an oratorical contest for women's month. He had already had the four line masterpiece down pat when his teacher said he needed more lines. I think I'll add two more Hip Hip Hooray's at the end and let it be. Well Hip Hop Hooray according to Dahvi.
holla
When you're married it seems other people perceive your relationship based on their on preconceived notions, experiences or current situations.
Carl and I have a great relationship mainly because he's my friend. I've blogged and said that before. We have our own jokes etc and on and on. Yeah I know its sappy. Carl as an artist or musician has never changed me or made me envy him. Never. He'll vouch for the many shows or few shows that I've attended where I'll usually post up way in the back or out the way.
And that's mainly because he becomes someone else.
He becomes KOKAYI. I know all about KOKAYI. And he's cool, humble and has star quality. He's a genius in fact. Don't let him know I said that. But I know, love and adore Carl. When he's in KOKAYI mode and whether I'm there on biz or not; I let him do KOKAYI. I'm no groupie. In fact when friends and acquaintances come to me on some KOKAYI ish about how great he is, I'm immediatly the jester. Usually I'll answer with a quick like Yeah he's alright. Yeah cool. Ummmmmm. This is not an act. I repeat this is not an act. That's just me.
I want the best out of Carl and KOKAYI. I push him as a friend, wife and artist. And I don't know what spouse wouldn't.
ahhh
The kids are on Spring break and I'm worn out after watching them run around the MALL( DC's mall you know the monument etc). And now they're busted and smacked out in bed. Ahh fresh air. Dahvi has to memorize an original piece written by moi for an oratorical contest for women's month. He had already had the four line masterpiece down pat when his teacher said he needed more lines. I think I'll add two more Hip Hip Hooray's at the end and let it be. Well Hip Hop Hooray according to Dahvi.
holla
